Grow Better, Not Bitter

I was thinking about what to say as we prepare to celebrate Passover while we continue to live and work amidst such troubling times both in the Mideast and here at home. While wandering the internet I came across an article in an online publication that spoke to what we can use to continue to find meaning, courage and faith at our tables.

With so much negativity in the world right now, this particular section spoke to me and so, with a few editorial changes, I thought I would share it with you.

Grow Better, Not Bitter

At the Seder we eat a sandwich of matzah, maror (bitter herbs) and haroset (a sweet mixture of fruit and nuts). There is wisdom in this ritual.

Maror represents the bitterness of slavery in Egypt, the heartbreak and pain of each punishing day. But the Seder is not only about recalling the past. It is our chance to live the present with clarity.

Each of us has a taste of maror on our lips right now. There have been so many incidents here and abroad that are affecting us in a negative way. More bitterness to swallow.

We can grow tired. We can grow bitter.

But the Seder gives us a formula for overcoming hurt. When all you see is pain, you become your pain. When bitterness takes over, you become a bitter person. Don’t let that happen. Take your maror and cover it with sweet haroset — your moments of blessing, your gratitude for being part of this remarkable people. Then wrap it all in matzah, the bread of faith. Live with courage.

This Seder night, grow better, not bitter.

Chag Pesach Sameach.

Ruth

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